The first thing you need to understand about our instructions is that we don't use a database. Many computer people probably will consider this not only 50 years old-fashion, but unworkable, un-do-able. Whether they are right or not, we'll see down the road. For now, this is the way we're doing it. We have several reasons for not using a database but we'll only tell you about two of these reasons: 1- Unless some hacker hacks into our code and deliberately "plants" child porn on our pages, our site(s) won't have child porn! It is rumored that every social networking website has child porn on it. Facebook, for example, is rumored to be the biggest child porn website on earth! Whether that is true or not, whenever you allow people to upload things to your website, they can upload pretty much anything they want at times! We don't want this to happen. We only want what we allow! Everything we receive will first be reviewed by us, and sometimes we'll nip something before it ever gets posted. We believe in nudity, and nudity can have many definitions and intrepretations, such as the most conservative Muslims in Afghanistan probably believe a woman is "nude" if she's not wearing a burqa in public:



On the other hand, there are string bikinis out there which are basically women walking around nude in public. Which is the point! When a website allows people to upload on their own, some people won't pay attention to the rules and do it anyway Although I've never clicked into child porn on Facebook (as rumors say it is there) - I have clicked into hard porn on Facebook. Facebook has rules of no porn, but people disobey and do it anyway for their friends and followers. The better way is to not allow them to upload in the first place. 2- Many top websites, and banks even, have had viruses. Sometimes very damaging to millions of people's financial information, such as Capital One's 100 million customers breach! Facebook, Yahoo, LinkedIn, and other big websites THAT UTILIZE DATABASES AND HAVE DATABASE & SECURITY EXPERTS whom we think shouldn't have viruses - still get attacked and are dangerous! Which brought me to the conclusion, if Facebook, Yahoo, Capital One, etc. can't keep viruses out with their data base experts, security experts, etc., what chance do small websites like our's have without using top experts (which don't seem to work anyway)?! The answer is: Little. So we decided to utilize Proton.me emails instead. By doing it this way if our website or server gets hit with a virus, that virus will only hit our member's pictures, members limited info. The virus will NOT capture our member's Paypal and bank passwords and other important stuff! And why? Because we don't use a database to store such things on either our server or on our website! It's as simple as that. We rely on the world-class, advanced technologies of Proton.me email accounts, which are end-to-end full encryption emails, the most secure email in the world. ANd if any expert hacker should break into one of these end-to-end encrypted emails at Proton.me, the key word here and there is "ONE." Whereas when hackers break into Yahoo, Capital One, Facebook, LinkedIn, etc, with them, they break not into one account at a time but into hundreds of millions of accounts at the same time!


So this is how we operate:

Plan 1 is for women who aren't exceptionally beautiful in the face. Just average looking. If you're not sure and pay under this Plan, we'll tell you if we want you to pay under Plan 2.

If you ARE a world-class beauty in your face, in which you already know you are, OR, if we judge you are, sorry, but we want to charge a bit more for your beauty for two reasons: A- You're more in demand than average-looking women, whom this website is designed to help; and B- we still offer a lesser-priced website than many dating/marriage sites that charge by the month. Here is our Paypal prices for 9's and 10's:

Plan 3 is for men. Men pay a Minimum of only $100.00 for a whole year.

A "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee is for men to 1)- Show that they truly do have financial wealth: i.e., a poor man is not capable of paying a $5000.00 "Wifely Salary" Promise
Fee; 2)- Show the woman that as long as a few things important to you are there, you are sincerely interested in marrying her! - which is why it is also called a "Hope-To-Marry-You" - Gift.; 3)- You are rich or well-to-do, and if you see or discern that the woman you are interested in is not so well off financially (perhaps she lives in the Philippines or other poor country for example), that you are willing to help her out with some immediate money now, rather than waiting until after you marry her. And 4)- She requires it of you. It's in her Profile and if you don't comply with her "Wifely Salary Promise Request," we won't forward your initial contact info to her.

You may have noticed that our Membership Fees are inexpensive compared to not only top dating sites, (most of which charge by the month - we might charge the same price but it's for a whole year), but millionaire matchmakers (some of whom charge tens of thousands of dollars; with one of them even charging a $million dollars to match a millionaire up with a monogamous woman! - and probably you don't learn the woman's sexual types and sexual frequency). However, our Fees are only low until you find a woman you are interested in marrying. And then, it depends whether she requires a "Wifely Salary," and/or a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee as to whether the cost to marry her remains relatively low or not.

Although our initial Fees are low, 'How-To-Marry-A-Millionaire" earns its bigger Fees
from two sources:

1- We charge to handle your Pre-Nuptial Marriage Contracts; and 2- We charge 50% of "Wifely Salary" Promise Fees. So if a woman requests our maximum "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee of $10,000 - and you think she is worth it, she splits that Fee 50/50 with us: she receives $5000.00 and we receive $5000.00.

Here are our "Wifely Salary Promise Fees":

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In not using a database, we keep your personal and bank information secure in your own end-to-end encrypted Paypal.me email. But in order for us to store our information there, it means we have to have access to your email. There are times when we need your Paypal, bank info, mailing info, contact info, etc. We also intermediate first emails from men to women and other things. In the case of a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee, that Fee is first paid to us, and after you are in compliance with its rules, (meaning you either call your millionaire prospective husband first or you email him and give him your 'burner phone' phone number and afterwards he calls you) and the two of you talk for a while over the phone, preferably by video camera, then can your "Wifely Salary" Promise Gift be released. Since he is the one actually giving you that money gift, which is what a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee is, he can require as many as three conversations with you before he releases your "Hope-To-Marry-You"-Gift. Or he can release it after your first or second conversation - it's up to him. Since our website is about Sexual Types & Sexual Frequency, you are expected to not be shy about these topics if he should broach you on them, or on anything else in YOUR PROFILE. Since Your Profile on our website does not go into a lot of questions as many dating profiles do on other dating sites, such as education, religion, job, family, past love life, interests, whether you want children with him, etc. etc., you are also expected to answer and talk about any subjects he may bring up. As you can discern about us broaching sensitive sexual matters, one of the ways we expect you to help our website be different than other dating/marriage websites is for you to not hold things back. Be willing to reveal things about yourself that other websites won't reveal. You're trying to marry a millionaire or a billionaire very quickly, without much courtship, and a major way for the two of you to do that is to be open and honest. Note however, if he is super rich or famous, you don't want to ask him too much about things that can be used or sold to the news. In some cases it cannot be a mutual or equal question & answer session because rich and/or famous people sometimes have more to lose socially and in business, etc. than you do. So you might have to be careful what you broach. Perhaps let him guide the conversations. Nor during these first 1, 2, or 3 telephone or web-cam conversations do you need to talk about Pre-Nuptial Contracts or what you want your wedding to be like, or how you are going to spend his money - even if you do have a "Wifely Salary" stipend planned. The only exception to this rule is IF he should ask you to marry him during call 1, 2, or 3 and you accept! In that case, the two of you are then engaged and not only should you start planning for your wedding, but you are required to notify us as soon as you are engaged. There are two reasons for this: 2- That we can take your Profile down; and 1- We require Marital Prenups To Be Written Up BY US. One of the reasons we have very low Membership Fees is because we anticipate earning money through writing & working with Pre-Nups. We'll assign a Pre-Nup Writer to the two of you, and help you formulate it until you get it "right" enough to let your intended spouse read it. Then we'll help with the negotiations and the re-writes until both of you agree with each others Pre-Nup Conditions. Then we'll merge the two contracts into one contract and have you both sign under the direction of either a Notary Public or an Attorney. Marriage Pre-nups cost anywhere from $500.00 to $10,000 - according to the combined Net Worth of the two of you and what we decide to charge you.

But if you have not reached that point of engagement after 1, 2, or 3 conversations, but the man notifies us nonetheless that everything between the two of you seems to be "cool", honest, and alright, and gives us the final verification that he wants to release his gift-fund to you, then we place your Profile in a "Pending Marriage Status" so that other men cannot contact you at this point.

After the man gives final authorization for his "Wifely Salary" Promise Gift to be released, we then pay you 50% of his 'gift' to you, via your Paypal account or bank, etc. It's important to emphasize here that although you the woman may choose or not choose to stipulate and set a special condition of a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee upon a prospective husband, he is NOT OBLIGATED to go through with Payment of this Fee if he chooses not to! He may choose not to because although you initially physically and perhaps sexually appeal to him, after talking to you he realizes you are not someone he wants to marry. In you, the woman, posting that you require him to submit a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee in order to initiate contact with him, your main goal shouldn't be the money itself! If it is, then you're a 'gold-digger' and we want you off of our website! Your main goal should be to test not only his generosity and willingness to support you, but also to prove that he indeed has wealth! A man who claims to be a millionaire shouldn't have any problem putting up $5000.00 or $10,000.00 dollars if he really really wants to marry you. Whereas a poor man (whom it is possible to get on our site) simply won't have that kind of money to fool around with. So although it is not mandatory for any woman to post for either a "Wifely Salary" or for a "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee, we recommend all of our Female Members post for both. Also, we do allow men who only earn $70,000 per year to be on our website, so if you are a woman who doesn't necessarily require marrying a millionaire, you can also post for a much smaller "Wifely Salary" and/or for a much smaller "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee. And by the way, you can post for one or the other, WITHOUT, the other. For example, if you don't want to ask for an actual "Wifely Salary" but you do want to test the man's sincerity by asking him to gift you a $1000 dollar "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee - we can do something like that, too. Anyway, getting back to the premise of his first contact with you concerning the "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee, he is willing to "gift" you that "FEE" because he really hopes to marry you! Nonetheless, of course he is not forced to marry you or become engaged with you, or you to him. If within 1, 2, or 3 phone or video-cam conversations you both think it is a go-ahead towards possible marriage (NOT necessarily a sure thing at this point BUT IT LOOKS PROMISING) then he should notify us to release your "GIFT". You should ONLY ACCEPT HIS GIFT if you, too, hope that the two of you will soon or eventually marry. If either of you are not okay with the marriage hope & prospect the two of you initially share, then no "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee should be given or accepted. In the case of no "Wifely Salary" Promise Fee being involved (the woman does not require one) a couple's first contact is still done through us. The man writes us at:

For Men ---
The man writes us at:

how-to-marry-a-millionaire@shareads.us

You, the man must send your first letter to the woman you want to be introduced to, through us. You don't need to go into personal details in this first email, because we can't guarantee that our staff member won't read it! Simply make it short and sweet, saying that you liked her Profile, and you "think" you might want to marry her. Understand that we are NOT a dating site! We're not a sexual "hook-up" site for a 1-night stand, whatever. Our goal is to get you married and the woman you approach married - TO EACH OTHER! Please don't waste anyone's time unless you are truly interested in seeing if she is the "ONE" or "ONE OF THE ONES" that you might want to marry. In your first letter you should mention your marriage intentions to her. You should include your own Member Profile link. And any other necessary information about yourself. We will forward your letter to your Wifely Prospect, but understand WITHOUT A WIFELY SALARY PROMISE FEE she is not required to answer you unless she wants to. After we send your first initial email to her (delivered in her own Proton.me email account which we "SHARE" with her, the rest is up to the two of you to continue corresponding or whatever. Note once again that we do require you to allow us to work out your Marriage Pre-Nups, if it comes to that point, and hope you will not try to fraud us out of these by marrying secretly, i.e., without informing us; or by hiring someone else such as your own attorney. Also, if you should get married, and it is not a secret polygamous marriage necessitating that you marry 200 miles or more out in the ocean in International Waters, or any other confidential marriage in which you do not want the public to know about, we also ask you to kindly allow us, How-To-Marry-A-Millionaire.com to be allowed to advertise your marriage success on our website or however or whereever else we desire to broadcast it. Thank You!

So, as you can hopefully see, you must "SHARE" your email with us. This email you "SHARE" with us must be a new email (if you are already a Proton.me customer) and must NOT be used for anything except for How-To-Marry-A-Millionaire correspondence and business.

If you are following Suggestion 1- Sexual Types & Sexual Frequency, or Suggestion 2 - Sexy Body Parts, or both Suggestion 1 and Suggestion 2, then please send your Proton.me address, username, password, and other information and pictures to:

millionairewife@shareads.us

If however you are following Suggestion 3 - A Man's Urge For Multiple Sexual Partners (Polygamy), or any combination of that such as Suggestions 1 and 3, or Suggestions 2 and 3, or all of them, Suggestions 1, 2, and 3, please send your Proton.me address, username, password, and other information and pictures to:

marriage@shareads.us